Never a Helpmeet Part 4: Patriarchal Narratives

But they reflect the patriarchy cult’s view that women who live their lives too freely are just asking for abuse.

Everyday Examples of Christian Rape Culture

It’s time for all Christians of all stripes to start confronting Christian rape culture.

Female Students Were Always Treated Graciously: Esau’s Story

“Here are some of my observations about life at Patrick Henry, based on my personal observation, during the time I was there (2006-2010).”

Patriarchy in Homeschool Culture: Samantha Field’s Thoughts

“In this culture, it is the sacred duty of every man to police the actions of every woman. Women are not to be trusted with decision making, let alone gifted the ability to make up their own mind on what they want to wear.”

Sobbin’ Women and a Rubber Duck: Ellynn’s Story

“One day last week I was at work and I caught myself absently singing ‘Sobbin’ Women’ from Seven Brides for Seven Brothers and nearly threw up. Literally, and let me tell you it was unexpected.”

The Many Valuable Lessons I Learned in ATI: Laura’s Story

“The 14 years I spent as a student in ATI taught me many valuable lessons for my life. Here are some of the highlights.”

What Rape Culture and Modesty Culture Have In Common

“As soon as a woman falls outside the standards of what is perceived as modest, those advocating modesty culture immediately join rape culture.”

Allowing the Devil to Undress You: The Slut-Shaming of a Former Homeschooler

“A disgrace. A destructive force against families. Homeschool dropout. A rat turd. These are but a number of phrases used on HSLDA’s Facebook page in reference to Teresa Scanlan, a former homeschooler attending Patrick Henry College. These are not phrases used by HSLDA…They are coming from fans (or at least previous fans) of HSLDA.”

Growing Kids the Abusive Way: Auriel’s Story, Part Three — Mini-Parents

“For both of my parents, I served as a surrogate spouse. I mediated their fights, hoping they wouldn’t escalate to violence. They would come to me as their confidant. Dad would complain to me about Mom, sharing his quandaries, wondering how to deal with her. He even consulted me as to whether he should divorce my mom when I was 14, or if he should take her to a psychiatric hospital when she was suicidal.”

Growing Kids the Abusive Way: Auriel’s Story, Part Two — Isolation and Ideology

“Through HSLDA and my parents, I learned that foster homes are terrible places that abuse children by burning their hands on stoves, and more. Well, it worked. I didn’t call hotlines, tell the speech moms who cared about me, or beg my few friends for help. When CPS showed up at our doorstep, my siblings and I lied for fear of being separated from each other forever.”